If you have been trying in vain to get pregnant, you will be happy to know that there are a few things you can do to help assure success. One of the most important things to keep in mind is that there are a number of things that are out of your control, so you should just let those aspects go and focus on the things you can control. Here are some ideas to help you get control of the aspects of conception that you can influence.
Do not avoid sex when you are pregnant. Many women are under the assumption that sex can harm their unborn child, but this is not true. In fact, sex can be helpful. Women have high hormone levels when pregnant, and having sex can help relieve some of the stress that these hormones give them.
Do not feel required to announce your pregnancy to everyone as soon as you know. All women have their own comfort zone regarding when they want to tell everyone. Some women wait until they have reached the end of the first trimester and the highest risk of miscarriage is over. Listen to your heart and share the news when you are ready to.
Don’t be afraid of the weight gain. You are going to gain weight. It’s not only normal but necessary. Your body needs fat reserves for breast milk, energy for labor and delivery as well as lots of extra fluids. Embrace the added weight and know that it will come off afterwards.
If you are having a hard time getting pregnant, make sure you visit your doctor and have him or her run tests. There are many reasons that you may not being pregnant, some of which can be treated. Also, make sure your partner is tested, as the problem could be with him or his sperm.
It is important to see a doctor once you have a pregnancy test that is positive. It is recommended that for the first trimester, you see your practitioner once a month. Typically, most women are seen between 8 and 10 weeks gestation. At this time, blood work is done and your urine is checked for protein and sugar.
When preparing for sleep while pregnant, set up a bedtime routine. Include activities that will relax you. Some relaxing activities are, drinking warm milk, reading a book or having a warm shower. When you are relaxed, it will be easier for you to fall asleep. Be sure that you have your routine set up so that you allow yourself enough time for sleep.
It is important that you allow your legs to get sufficient circulation when you are pregnant. Getting blood to flow can be difficult when a woman is pregnant and by not moving your legs enough, you can get blood clots, which can be deadly. You could also wear special stockings that help blood flow.
Keep a journal during pregnancy, and fill it with stories and pictures from your pregnancy. Once your child grows up a little, they will appreciate the effort that you put into this! Kids love to see themselves in Mommy’s tummy. Take pictures and jot little notes to share with them later on when they’re ready.
Talk to your baby. Studies have shown that babies do react to touch from ten weeks in the pregnancy. At later stages they can react to light, your voice as well as other sounds. This will bond you and your baby for life, and while they won’t remember any of this, it will definitely help.
So, in the final analysis, even though we cannot control every detail that influences conception, it’s good to know that there are ways of keeping track of, planning, and preparing for pregnancy. When you fully understand the process, it will be easier for you to relax and allow your body to get on with the natural work of conception.